How is this happening if men, who are 50% of the population, are not making more meaningful connections? I totally get what you're saying. There is a disconnect. My wife and I are going to marriage counseling now. She says I don't give her the emotional connection she wants. I tell her the same thing. We've been married for 22 years and she wants it to still feel like when we were dating. I'd like to have more sex, but she has a low libido and says she's not in the mood for sex without the emotional intimacy first. I tell her I feel much more connected and intimate with her (because I do) after we make love. I feel it for days and even weeks. It literally does make me love her more. But she has some sort of standard in her head for sex that even she can't communicate clearly in our sessions. After 22 years, we can't just do it anymore? I've been with her through thick and thin and raised two kids. I just don't know anymore, but if women want to be with women, five, but that is sadly only going to leave porn for men.